In reading C.S. Lewis’ book, “Surprised by Joy,” I came across this quote: “Joy (in my sense) has indeed one characteristic, and one only, in common with them; the fact that anyone who has experienced it will want it again. Apart from that, and considered only in its quality, it might almost equally well be called a particular kind of unhappiness or grief. But then it is a kind we want. I doubt whether anyone who has tasted it would ever, if both were in his power, exchange it for all the pleasures in the world. But the Joy is never in our power and pleasure is.” (Lewis, 18) I disagreed. What about when we have to choose joy, in the midst of situations where it doesn’t seem rational? Isn’t it up to us to choose? The answer came through a sweet sister: “Perhaps he is saying that joy comes from outside ourselves.” That truth hits me and Paul’s experiences and letters come to mind, where he talks about joy co...